Chastity for Beginners

Chastity for Beginners

Chastity can be a very fun way of engaging remotely with me. The deep urge to experience sexual satisfaction only to be denied and have the temptation build up to ecstatic heights is a fetish fantasy that many people crave.

To begin the journey and fun of chastity, you first have to learn how to navigate the physical attributes of wearing a chastity cage.

Which Chastity Cage should I order?

A lot of people who are long term devotees of chastity will go through the process of buying many different chastity cages over there life. They usually do this to find one that fits their changing needs. Some examples are: sizing issue, an added bonus of a urethral plug, or to accommodate a cock piercing. Different chastity devices are made for different levels of comfort, devotion to chastity and duration of wear.

The Holy Trainer is my preferred beginner cage from House of Denial

For a beginning I would advise a starter cage plastic or silicone cage like the Holy Trainer or the CB6000. They are quite similarly shaped and are made of plastic or silicon that covers the entire length of the cock. While this amount of coverage makes cleaning a bit more difficult, these materials are more comfortable for long term wear, or beginners in chastity. 

The primary difference of the CB6000 and the Holy Trainer are the lock feature. The Holy Trainer has an internal locking mechanism and is sold with the key included. The CB6000 is a cage requires you to purchase a separate lock to lock onto the mechanism. I highly recommend browsing the House of Denial website for a wide variety of reasonably priced cages.

What size of cage should I get?

I love a metal cage with a sexy lacy lingerie look.

Well since your cock is so tiny and insignificant, I would suggest the smallest one. But for your comfort, the best way to find out is to measure the length of your flaccid cock and buy a cage that is around the size of the measurement. The same goes for the ring size. Take a measuring tape or a small piece of non stretch string and measure the circumference of the based of your scrotum and penis where the ring will be and choose a ring circumference that is a little bigger than that number. 

Consider the ring and the gap between the base of the cage and the base of the ring. Their measurements have to be tight enough not to pop off of your testicles. Keep in mind not to get one that is too tight that it will stop circulation. 

How do I put it on?

The first thing to do is unlock and open up your chastity cage. If the cage that you have is one with a hinge opening ring, you open the ring and wrap it around your cock and balls. If it is a solid ring cage that you have, then you stick your balls in one at a time. Be careful not to pinch your scrotum. Once the ring is snuggly on, lube up your flaccid cock (it must be flaccid). Stick the business end of the cage onto your member making sure to connect the ring and the cage together. Time to lock up the cage and give the key to me and watch as it dangles teasingly between my bosom.

Hygiene and Chastity

Smooth and squeaky clean.

Personal Hygiene is incredibly important, even more so when you are wearing a chastity cage. Make sure that you wash yourself daily. You must also wash your caged cock. The best way to do that would be with a Q-tip and a bit of water and body wash. Stick the Q-tip into you cage from the base of your cock and give it a clean from the inside. Once you are done, give your cock and cage a thorough spray with the powerful jets of water from your shower head. This ensures that any dead skin and sweat is cleaned from your cage.

This cleaning process essential of you have a full enclosed cage. But even with the metal ones, it is important to give the cage and your cock a good rinse. Push your flaccid cock around to get in-between the nooks and crannies. No one likes a rancid smelly smidgen of meat when the cage is finally unlocked for that highly anticipated orgasm.

Chastity Tips and Tricks

  • If you have a hinge ring chastity device the hinge part of the ring might be irritating on your scrotum. It is helpful to get a small bit of rubber tubing the same diameter as the ring of your cage and covering the hinge bit to protect from pinching.
My dirty little Chastity Slave
  • If you are using a device that has an external lock and the lock is making a noise as it hits against your cage, wrapping a rubber band around the lock will mute the sound.
  • If in the middle your sleep your raging boner is keeping you awake, going to the bathroom to have a piss and a breather will help to calm it down and put you back into the sleeping mood.
  • A tiny amount of lube around the ring of the cage before you sleep at night is also helpful for comfort. It reduces the friction between the ring and your skin when you cock is having a frustrating hard on.

I adore chastity and enforcing a strict denial and provocation of pleasure with my playthings.

For more juicy details on how I relish the feeling of withholding your sweet orgasms and playing with your masturbation habits, have a look at this blog post.

Masturbation – The Appeal of Tease, Denial and Chastity

Masturbation – The Appeal of Tease, Denial and Chastity

You know you will never be able to have sex with me. Your orgasms and sexual desires are to be played with, manipulated and expressed in an entirely new and intimate way that beats the good old fashion pump pump squirt. 

I love watching jerk off videos

Masturbation Tease Denial and Chastity– I adore watching men masturbate. It is personally one of my fetishes. There is something so powerful about invading a sexual space that is meant to be private. It feels especially powerful to take control of someone’s sexual experience and make it mine. That’s one of the voyeuristic fetishes I enjoy. A consensual invasion of privacy is only a very small part of why I love it. 

In the animal kingdom, sex and eating are two instances where animals are the most primal, indulgent and vulnerable. In order to cum and successfully reach the peak of orgasm, the body is exposed in an open position. As part of this, the mind is emptied of distractions and alertness, and focused entirely on the subject of arousal. Watching someone in that position with my consciousness and focus intact as they mindlessly jerk, repeating the same arousing thoughts like a mantra desperately trying to reach a single point is hilarious and powerful for me. It reminds me of a dog in heat mindlessly humping the edge of a couch. As the owner of this human dog, the experience is particularly empowering. 

Because of this personal fetish of mine, I have amassed a large collection of jerk-off videos from slaves and lovers. Each of these are unique in their circumstances and orgasmic releases. Some videos are of chastity slaves getting their first orgasm in months, and others are the 5th orgasm they have had in a row, resulting in a sad piddly cough of cum from an entirely spent testicle.

Tease and Denial

When a private playtime experience enters my realm of domination, it becomes a tool of manipulation for me. Your orgasms and your varying levels of desperation to achieve them become an instrument for my entertainment and pleasure. Tease and Denial is one of my favorite games. I can see how a minimal repetitive activity can seem tedious and boring for some. Tease and denial is not about repetition it’s about hunger and desperation.

Sexual desperation is a great way to prime my little playthings to complete all sorts of creative and taboo tasks. Making them jump through hoops just to please me and earn that tiny little orgasm. And of course, keeping a good little specimen on the brink of orgasm for hours on end makes me feel extra powerful and naughty.

Chastity the Ultimate Denial

When you are in my presence, we can play a game of tease and denial while I enforce your chastity. When you are away from me, I enjoy keeping your orgasm privileges under control. Nothing beats a physical vice around your genitals to remind you that your masculinity, orgasms, pleasure and weaknesses are mine.

Chastity is not just about denial, chastity once committed to is a constant reminder of my power over you and your devotion and submission to me. It is like a sexual filter over you’re daily life. Any contact with, or reminder of, me or any menial task that I send you on is now filled with sexual purpose. Those once less meaningful things are now a relentless tug on your little soft bits.

In our ever independence and productivity driven society, life can feel isolating and lonely. The chastity device, besides being there to deprive and control, is also a symbol of our dynamic and my connection with you. For some chastity is not just a sexual fetish but an emotional anchor. 

One of my favorite things about chastity is it’s effectiveness with sensual domination. 

Sensuality of Chastity

The key to sensual domination is just knowing that I am absolutely gorgeous and then dangling myself just out of reach so the eager plaything will do whatever it takes to reach the unattainable. 

I adore sending little dirty messages or naughty pictures to tease my little locked up playthings. It’s a style of flirtation that I have enjoyed ever since I was a teenager. It is reminiscent of the little dirty embarrassing notes I would leave for my lovers and watch as they blush in embarrassment and arousal. 

If you are interested in masturbation, tease, denial and chastity with me, all you have to do is fill out my contact sheet and apply to be a little chastity toy for me. If you are new to chastity and want to do some research, have a look at House of Denial. They are full of quality cages for a reasonable price.

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